Incidents like
these taught me not to waste my energies and it’s either I shut up or I
listen and nod without being rude. I am in no mood to gain positive points to
prove who is right and what is wrong. Some people have the pleasure going
through historical references and geographical locations to make a point that
mess with peoples’ minds. Something that can be wrong, it feels so right. Isn’t
it hard for you to see what’s wrong when history and geography takes place? They
have been reading a lot that they know. Unless the input of information is of
the same level then stay away from being wrong. Don't these people love to
debate that reflects the other person’s weakness? Most control freaks cannot
help believing that when someone else wrongs them they feel beaten and robbed. "I
don't know, is it and I don't care", which is their excuse. The way out of the argument is to be in denial, their way of being right.
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You may in fact
think you want to go to law school now. You are wrong. Why do you need to do it
now unless if you like arguing and to be right. If you like to argue just for
the sake of being contentious, don't pick on your friends and irritate them, go
get counseling. Arguing for intellectual challenges is healthy as an
intelligent debate. Viewpoints are different and to each their own. We agree
just to disagree. It is not necessary to be right all the time. Information and
experiences changes with time so are the perspectives, our belief systems,
attitudes and the realities that makes us differentiates the right with the
wrong. There is no right or wrong. It can be a myth or just a point of view,
which was taken from somewhere and not being able to find its authenticity. It
is just concept. Being right and wrong is ones way to demonstrate ones inner
intelligence. Could it be undermining ones insecurities too?
An artist would
agree that in art there is no right or wrong. Whichever way you paint the
picture, you are still painting the picture. To the control freaks out there,
they become the judge and jury to their own opinions that generally delivering
a death statement, “See I told you so”. I am not in a pursuit of perfection and
driving myself to get it right. I am seeking freedom from the confines of
what’s right or wrong. I love to be free and have the ability to appreciate the
innocent of beauty and creativity. There are those endless struggles to judge
and prove their intellectual superiority. There are people in the world, who
are just wrong, and there are the masses of population that are right. Who am I
to judge what’s right or wrong? I don’t lie nor do I hide in the veil of
between. It’s not that I do not have a backbone or a mind of my own. Again, I
must stress that I am nobody. I have a body like everyone else. I can feel my
perspiration and I can feel the heat against my skin. I have senses but it’s
just that I am empty inside. Everything is an experience. There is no one who
can decide what is right and what is wrong. Because what is right to you maybe
wrong to me. So what’s your point?
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